Thursday, February 26, 2009

FRIENDS - Personal Practice

I had an interesting conversation this week with a friend in which it was noted how happy an individual may be based on their relationship status.  

If you are curious, take a look on the internet to see differing perspectives.

I however, started to think about this particular report as told to me and then began a personal introspection.  Am I happy?  

I have to say, yes…but no also.  It depends on the day and the things I have going on in life.  

On a side Note:  Isn’t it all about balance?

Anyway: Regardless of relationship status, doesn’t it all depend on your mood and the day in which someone asks you a question about your happiness?  It does for me.

Which then led me to think about “profiling”, what an odd concept this seems to me as we grow and evolve throughout our lives.  Sure, we fundamentally have some base beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors.  But aren’t there those of us who strive to improve and spend a little extra time not to act on our impulses?  I think so.  But then again, this is my opinion and part of my personal practice in my journey.

Then this week I was asked by a teacher to give.  I was asked to dedicate my practice to someone or something and to open my wallet and spread the wealth.

I think this was an interesting lesson as I often think before a class that I want to offer some of my practice to someone or something.  When I pass by someone in need, I always notice their plight and wish I had more to give than the occasional dollar or two every so often.  

Don’t we all do this?  Doesn’t it depend on our mood or our own personal state of happiness?

Regardless, it’s nice to be reminded to give.  As sometimes when a lesson like this is delivered it’s when it’s needed most.  And, it’s nice to have all those studies out there that give us hope and insight into the perspectives of others.  Even though we may think the results are odd or do not fit our views, it’s wonderful that we are being given something to think about.  Don’t you agree?

Set an Intention!

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